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4 Strange but Beautiful Paradoxes In Life
Carl Jung once said: “Only the paradox comes anywhere near to comprehending the fullness of life.”
I agree.
That’s why I’ve compiled this list of four paradoxes. Each one honours the complexity of life and showcases its nuance.
Here goes.
1. The paradox of growth
Growth seems to happen gradually, almost imperceptibly at times, then all at once.
The way Chinese bamboo grows is one of the best examples of this.
Chinese bamboo can barely be seen for the first five years of its life as it builds extensive root systems underground. Then it explodes ninety feet into the air within six weeks.
Our own lives can follow a similar trajectory.
The growth paradox reminds me to be patient.
2. The paradox of learning
Sometimes moving forward feels like going backward.
Sometimes growing up feels like regressing.
“If you wish to improve, be content to appear clueless or stupid” — Epictetus
Socrates is thought to be one of the wisest men ever to have lived now but many people thought he was silly or ridiculous back in the day.
He asked lots of questions, always assumed he didn’t know the answer, and wasn’t afraid to look silly or dumb.
This allowed him to learn more than most because he wasn’t afraid to appear stupid or ignorant.
The paradox of learning teaches me to adopt a beginner’s mindset everywhere I go.
3. The paradox of power
Real power should not be asserted. It is should not used to control, discipline, or rule.
The ocean doesn’t micromanage the world’s waters —yet every drop flows gently into her mouth eventually.
This is the true essence of power.
Strong boundaries + compassion + surrender
I believe Rumi said it best:
“Raise your words, not voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.”
The paradox of power reminds me to be clearer, not louder.
4. The paradox of death
Accepting death is the best way to live.
Our mortality acts as a nagging reminder that no one’s getting out of here alive and it comes a lot sooner than we care to admit.
Embracing death isn’t as morbid as it sounds. It reminds me how to live before it’s too late.
What are some of your favourite paradoxes?
